You Have A Place Here, Too
Learning your partner is unexpectedly pregnant can cause various feelings to run through your mind. From shock to confusion, every emotion is valid.
Take a deep breath. This news can feel overwhelming in the moment, but you have more support than you may realize. You and your partner will not be alone as you navigate the next steps.
Moore Options Pregnancy Center knows that this time can feel uncertain. You may not know how to support your partner best or how to move forward.
However, you don’t have to figure things out by yourself. Know that you have a confidential space to discuss your partner’s unexpected pregnancy and what’s ahead.
You Play A Critical Role
You’re likely feeling many things right now. However, remember that your partner is the one who’s pregnant, and she needs your support and encouragement more than ever.
Any emotions you’re experiencing are entirely valid. Think back to the time when your partner shared her pregnancy news. How did you react? What were your biggest fears, concerns, and hopes?
Consider the following tips as you navigate this situation:
- Make sure your partner feels loved and supported. This challenge provides an opportunity to bring you two closer together. However, without proper communication and trust, obstacles can be created. Express your commitment to your partner during this time and emphasize the importance of speaking openly and honestly with each other.
- Take time to process your feelings, away from outside opinions or pressure. You may wonder what family and friends will think when they learn of the pregnancy. Perhaps they have opinions or advice they’ve already shared. However, taking time to process your emotions and evaluate the situation can help you to reassert control over your life and feel more prepared.
- Learn what resources are available to you and your partner. Has your partner confirmed her pregnancy, and have you begun to weigh options together? Gathering essential details about the pregnancy and learning about abortion, adoption, and parenting will provide clarity and understanding.
Though the future may feel unstable in these moments, remember that your circumstances can shift and change. As the guy in the relationship, you have a unique opportunity to be there for your partner during the ups and downs.
What If We’re Not Together Anymore?
Even if you and your partner are no longer together, you can still play an important role. For example, some women don’t realize what options are available to them (like parenting or adoption) if they don’t receive additional input. Some men wish to co-parent, but expressing this desire requires transparent communication and a willingness to work things out together.
When your ex-partner shares that she’s pregnant, you can invite her to have more conversations about the support she needs. If she is comfortable, you may find she wants to make the pregnancy decision together.
No matter your situation, know that support is available. Our trusted advocates are here for you.
No-Cost, Confidential Services For Men
Moore Options Pregnancy Center provides support for men in various ways, including:
- Pregnancy counseling: Learn about abortion, adoption, and parenting in a confidential, trustworthy environment.
- Fatherhood program: This popular program equips men with the tools needed to be engaged and confident fathers.
- Parenting classes: Learn the essential skills needed for every step of the parenting journey.
- Material assistance & community referrals: From supplies like formula and baby clothing to referrals to community organizations, we’ve got you covered.
- Sexual integrity education: Learn how to keep yourself safe and make healthy decisions in relationships and life.
We care about your opinions, concerns, and situation. Contact us today to learn more.
